Harry Hay
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The Obituary
Harry Hay, Paved the Way For Modern Gay Activism, Dies at 90 --
Stuart Timmons
Henry "Harry" Hay, known as the founder of the modern American gay movement, has
died at age 90. The pioneering gay activist devoted his life to progressive
politics and in 1950, he founded a state-registered foundation and secret
network of support groups for gays known as the Mattachine Society. He was also
a co-founder, in 1979, of the Radical Faeries, a movement affirming gayness as a
form of spiritual calling. A rare link between gay and progressive politics, Hay
and his partner of 39 years, John Burnside, had lived in San Francisco for three
years after a lifetime in Los Angeles.
Hay had been diagnosed weeks earlier with lung cancer. Despite his illness, he
remained lucid and died peacefully in his sleep in the early hours of October
24.
"Harry Hay’s determined, visionary activism significantly lifted gays out of
oppression," said Stuart Timmons, who published a biography of Hay in 1990. "All
gay people continue to benefit from his fierce affirmation of gays as a people."
Hay is listed in histories of the American gay movement as first in applying the
term "minority" to homosexuals. An uncompromising radical, he easily dismissed
"the heteros," and never rested from challenging the status quo, including
within the gay community. Due to the pervasive homophobia of his times (it was
illegal for more than two homosexuals to congregate in California during the
1950s) Hay and his colleagues took an oath of anonymity that lasted a quarter
century until Jonathan Ned Katz interviewed Hay for the ground-breaking book Gay
American History. Countless researchers subsequently sought him out; in recent
years, Hay became the subject of a biography, a PBS-funded documentary, and an
anthology of his own writings.
Previous attempts to create gay organizations in the United States had fizzled -
or been stamped out. Hay's first organizational conception was a group he called
Bachelors Anonymous, formed to both support and leverage the 1948 presidential
candidacy of Progressive Party leader Henry Wallace. Hay wrote and discreetly
circulated a prospectus calling for "the androgynous minority" to organize as a
political entity. Hay’s call for an "international bachelor’s fraternal order
for peace and social dignity" did not bear results until 1950. That year, his
love affair with Viennese immigrant Rudi Gernreich, (whose fashion designs
eventually made him a TIME cover-man) brought Hay into gay circles where a
critical mass of daring souls could be found to begin sustained meetings. On
November 11, 1950, at Hay’s home in the Silver Lake district of Los Angeles, a
group of gay men met which became the Mattachine Society. Of the original
Mattachine founders, Chuck Rowland, Bob Hull, Dale Jennings pre-deceased Hay;
Konrad Stevens and John Gruber are the last surviving members of the founding
group.
"Mattachine" took its name from a group of medieval dancers who appeared
publicly only in mask, a device well understood by homosexuals of the 1950s. Hay
devised its secret cell structure (based on the Masonic order) to protect
individual gays and the nascent gay network. Officially co-gender, the group was
largely male; the Daughters of Bilitis, the pioneering lesbian organization,
formed independently in San Francisco in 1956. Though some criticized the
Mattachine movement as insular, it grew to include thousands of members in
dozens of chapters, which formed from Berkeley to Buffalo, and created a lasting
national framework for gay organizing. Mattachine laid the ground for rapid
civil rights gains following 1969's Stonewall riots in New York City.
Harry Hay was born in England in 1912, the day the Titanic sank. His father
worked as a mining engineer in South Africa and Chile, but the family settled in
Southern California. After graduating from Los Angeles High School, he briefly
attended Stanford, but dropped out and returned to Los Angeles. He understood
from childhood that he was a sissy - different in behavior from boys or girls -
and also that he was attracted to men. His same-sex affairs began when he was a
teenager, not long after he began reading 19th Century scholar Edward Carpenter,
whose essays on "homogenic love" strongly influenced his thinking.
A tall and muscular young man, Hay worked as both an extra and ghostwriter in
1930s Hollywood. He developed a passion for theater, and performed on Los
Angeles stages with Anthony Quinn in the 1930s, and with Will Geer, who became
his lover. Geer took Hay to the San Francisco General Strike of 1935, and
indoctrinated him into the American Communist Party. Hay became an active trade
unionist. A blend of Marxist analysis and stagecraft strongly influenced Hay's
later gay organizing.
Despite a decade of gay life, in 1938 Hay married the late Anita Platky, also a
Communist Party member. The couple were stalwarts of the Los Angeles Left; Hay
taught at the California Labor School and worked on domestic campaigns such as
campaigning for Ed Roybal, the first Latino elected in Los Angeles. The Hays
occasionally hosted Pete Seeger when he performed in Los Angeles, and Hay
recalled demonstrating with Josephine Baker in 1945 over the Jim Crow policy of
a local restaurant. When he felt compelled to go public with the Mattachine
Society in 1951, the Hays divorced. After a burst of activity lasting three
years, the growing Mattachine rejected Hay as a liability due to his Communist
beliefs. In 1955, when he was called before the House UnAmerican Activities
Committee, he had trouble finding a progressive attorney to represent him, he
felt, due to homophobia on the Left. (He was ultimately dismissed after his curt
testimony.) Hay felt exiled from the Left for nearly fifty years, until he
received the Life Achievement award of a Los Angeles library preserving
progressive movements.
For most of his life Hay lived in Los Angeles. However, during the early 1940s,
Hay and his wife lived in New York City; he returned there with John Burnside to
march and speak at the Stonewall 25 celebration in 1994. During the 1970s, he
and Burnside moved to New Mexico, where he ran the trading post at San Juan
Pueblo Indian reservation.
His years of research for gay references in history and anthropology texts lead
Hay to formulate his own gay-centered political philosophy, which he wrote and
spoke about constantly. His theory of "gay consciousness" placed variant
thinking as the most significant trait in homosexuals. "We differ most from
heterosexuals in how we perceive the world. That ability to offer insights and
solutions is our contribution to humanity, and why our people keep reappearing
over the millennia," he often stressed. Hay’s occasional exhortations that gays
should "maximize the differences" between themselves and heterosexuals remained
controversial. Academics tended to reject his ideas as much as they respected
his historic stature.
A fixture at anti-draft and anti-war campaigns for sixty years, Hay worked in
Women's Strike for Peace during the Viet Nam War as a conscious strategy to
build coalition between gay and feminist progressives. He also worked closely
with Native American activists, especially the Committee for Traditional Indian
Land and Life. Hay was a local founder of the Lavender Caucus of Jesse Jackson's
Rainbow Coalition during the early 1980s, determined to help convince the gay
community that its political success was inextricably tied to a broader
progressive agenda. His decades of agitation for coalition politics brought him
increasing appreciation in later life from labor and third-party groups.
A second wind of activism came in 1979 when Hay founded, with Don Kilhefner, a
spiritual movement known as the Radical Faeries. This pagan-inspired group
continues internationally based on the principal that the consciousness of gays
differs from that of heterosexuals. Hay believed that this different way of
seeing constituted the contribution gays made to society, and was indeed the
reason for their continued presence throughout history. Despite his
often-combative nature, Hay became an increasingly beloved figure to younger
generations of gay activists. He was often referred to as the "Father of Gay
Liberation."
Hay is survived by Burnside as well as by his self-chosen gay family, a model he
strongly advocated for lesbians and gays. His adopted daughters, Kate Berman and
Hannah Muldaven also survive him. A circle of Radical Faeries provided care for
him and Burnside through their later years. Harry Hay leaves behind a wide
circle of friends and admirers among lesbians, gays, and progressive activists.